many words come to mind when conversing on the unhappiness I have with the same sex. There are just too many days that make me ashamed to be a female, but then I think about Lobo and my body and my skills and such and grin and say "Nah...."
The chief complaint would be the interpersonal skills of women. I myself am a product of that fold and the fallacies of such. Men have issues with us and the majority of my gender really don't care. We don't listen to them any more than they do to us. The theory of relativity and how survival of the fittest comes to play leaves one scratching their head to figure out how it all fits and why we choose who we choose. Girls pick a guy based upon the lies he tells and then get all in a tizzy over the fact he told lies, after thirty of her female family members and companions have already told her they would. If I approached a cave and several dozen people come screaming out and tell me not to go in there and why, I have a choice to make. I could go in and be fine, or I could go in and suffer immensely, but I cannot go in and suffer immensely and then come out and whine and cry over the result turning out exactly as I was warned. If shit goes to pot, then I pull my tail between my legs and take my lumps and crawl out and dust myself off and move on. Sounds proper doesn't it? Now let's see a show of hands who really does this (miss mobe holds up both hands and a drawing of a third hand in one of them). Unfortunately, after glancing quickly but not too quick, there aren't enough hands-if they were honest. We throw ourselves on the fire and then scream bloody hell when it burns! Duuuuuhhh! Of course it burns! Did you think you were so special that the fates would make the fire cold to your touch and spare you the humiliation of your ignorance?
Relationships are like that. Women go charging head first into the world's worst candidate because they hate to be alone as much as the "mommy seekers" do and then freak out. And each time is worse than the last. But look at what you are creating in the men when you do this. When you vie for an unsuitable mate you are inflating his ego well beyond the point his fragile mind could handle. He crumbles under the pressure and feels the need to keep secrets and lie to you because he cannot possibly live "up" to your level. It weighs him down and makes the majority of them in this situation resentful and accusatory. I'm not saying a "10" should pass up on everyone who isn't a "10" or vice versa. But if a person cannot take care of themselves, what makes you think they can take care of you? If they treat their own siblings and children and parents like shit and servants and the family appears to be in distress, what makes you think that they even remotely resemble "Prince Charming"? I watch my girlfriends get hurt and my sisters create hurt and they tell me they love these men. Fine. You love men that are weak and useless sitting on your couch with their Wii and their buddies and a beer without a job while you work and pay the bills and do most all of the domestic chores so they can live like they're your son and not your partner. I'm bisexual-I want one of you guys! To be able to be free of responsibility and have someone cater to my every whim and expect nothing...bliss, man fucking bliss!
Live within your means and NEVER be afraid to stand up for yourself. Quit telling these slackers and losers that they are far more special than they are and quit giving them a license to behave like fourteen year olds and do nothing. Find a man who will work and work WITH you and share in the responsibilities, and not interfere with who you are and who you associate with. Don't take advantage of your man when you get a good one and don't go trolling for what you don't deserve and what certainly don't deserve you. Be kind and temperate with your words. You are NOT their mother and owe them nothing, so don't tell me how they're a diamond in the rough and you can FIX them. They don't want to be fixed anymore than you want to be treated like shit, so why put yourself there? Fix YOU and let them fix themselves; they are adults too. There are women out there that are perfect for them. They may not want them but that doesn't mean you have to settle. I would rather NOT have one than to have one who treats himself or me badly. I come across all these discarded men and sometimes myself think they are working on their issues and I listen to their grievances and shake my head. I see their flaws and yours too. Relationships have fallen by the wayside and the men are not all to blame here. Just saying...~mobe's love to her all and her all to her loves.
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